You know my wife and I are lod school. We have our jobs, she does laundry and cleans the house, I bbq, mow the lawn, fix things, and do stuff if she asks.
My wife treats me like an adult. So as long as I don’t do something stupid enough to kill me (because she wants me around) I am free to run gear, or whatever. Truthfully she really couldn’t care if I explained it to her.
Mind you I wouldn’t restrict what my wife wanted to do either. My wife is one of the safe boring, solid as a rock type people, I am the crazy one.
I mean most wives wouldn’t buy their husband a bike that they will never get on, or buy me video game consoles for Christmas. That’s how I got my Xbox 1.