I am glad lifting boosted your confidence and got you laid more. I thinks doing something really intensely like lifting will always boost your confidence
I tell you ... if you have quite a bit of muscle and you are ripped, the women notice, and they are all over you. I think I mentioned I trained and competed in BB for 2 years. I was big already especially in the back traps thighs and ham strings due to all the squatting and deadlifts I did when I was powerlifting. After I did my first show everyone noticed me as I did very well, especially the women, and I was 52. You definitely can get laid a lot easier when your physique looks real good. I was married so I never took advantage of that but they started hitting on me at the gym quite a bit.
That is the truth. Some will tell you they don’t like muscles, but it’s a lie, lol.
A little over 2 years ago before my colon surgery and nerve issues, I was in great shape, single digit bodyfat not huge but built bigger than average and I got attention.
The day I realized I was looking good for 46 was after my massage, I had forgot my keys in the shop (my shop is next door to the massage place) anyhow everyone went home and locked the door. I had no keys to get home, so I ask the girl behind the counter if I could borrow the phone to call my wife, 3 late 40’s woman tried to out volunteer each other to drive me home, lol.
First thing I thought of was my wife, she has always gotten hit on like this all the time. So much she doesn’t even notice anymore. It made me feel pretty cool.
Oh and there was the meat maid that was 17 years younger that was trying to bang me, lol.
That was the end of my tren days, the memories.
But yes having a decent body makes a huge difference in the bar when I was younger. That where the gift of gab and a ripped midsection rules, lol.