This is rather long but it is well worth the read:
https://www.theglobeandmail.com/opi...pc12yYVZNeUDIMrfZbeDnAiu9Rjk8RGmDbJ5RMiMco3jE
https://www.theglobeandmail.com/opi...pc12yYVZNeUDIMrfZbeDnAiu9Rjk8RGmDbJ5RMiMco3jE
It is interesting and I was just mentioning this to someone recently.
I’ve found I have very few close friends anymore. I know tons of people but have few close friends.
It is interesting and I was just mentioning this to someone recently.
I’ve found I have very few close friends anymore. I know tons of people but have few close friends.
I’m a lot along the lines of you brother. Never had a ton of friends. I know a shit ton of people but I have no drive to have a lot of close friends.I have no friends.. I've been a loner my whole life, I hung out with guys, partied and shit like that when I was in school but that was the extent of it. My wife says that was what attracted me to her, even in high school I'd never follow the pack or was influenced under peer pressure, if it was something I wanted to do I'd do it, if not I wouldn't. The thought of having a close friend that I'd confide in gives me the heeby jeebys lol.
Oddly enough my best friend is a brother... Masonically speaking of course.I also have very few friends. more by choice then anything. all my friends live far away from me and I seldom see them.
and to me friend is a very casual term. friends are people you talk to now and then. now if your talking brothers then yes I have individuals I consider a brother. A brother is someone I would call on if if in need. A friend is not someone I would call on if in need.
Having a friend is a large commitment of resources, especially time.
When I was in school I had lots of friends pretty much knew everyone, like Faller did my own thing.
But once work started and marriage, so on it ended.
Truthfully I miss not having someone to talk to, certain things you can’t talk to your wife about. But shit on here there is a few guys I would talk to for advice, so that is all that’s really needed.
Last weekend neighbour down the road invited me over, we got along great, said we should do this again (we were drunk) he said sure, everyday. Anyhow I havnt bothered dropping by again. I don’t have time for everyday.
The worse part of being married is family play dates. When my wife has her friends and their kids and husbands over and I get shit from her every time for not being social enough lol. I somehow half to automatically turn into the guys best friend.