Yea I spank her all the time, not when I'm mad but in bed. If you mean punishment for bad behavior I don't believe in punishing, either i communicate properly and we tend to each others cares and needs or we schedule a session with our marriage counsellor. The worst most negative thing I've ever done has been either turning the tables and saying well if ur allowed to do said behavior that pissed me off I say we'll I'm allowed to as well. Then when she sees it in a different perspective she understands better.