Thats just It! Once upon a time, doing nothing would result in a whole lot of starving to death.It has changed for sure. But still a lot of old values can be instilled, which are not anymore and that’s the fault of the parents, and society, that was decided on by the same parents.
I have to explain simple things to the kids at work all the time.
One kid beat on his dads truck so much doing burn outs and such and was whining he had to buy new tires for his dads truck. I told him he was lucky and my dad would have kicked my ass for that. Then I said to him. “But you were the one that burned them off not your dad, I think you got off easy”, he groaned, yeah you are right.
My grandson has it so easier chore wise than I had. Before when I asked for help he groaned, flopped around damn it was annoying. So since there is no school he is stuck at work in the morning, so has has become my official hamburger patty box filler and maker. Oh the groaning was so bad at first it tortured me, but he’s getting better now.
We need to install better values.
We're making him do a lot of chores around the house and like your grandson, there's been improvement. The largest problem is the job/getting out. Man at 18 I wanted out of my mother's house so fucking bad it was ridiculous. Hes been conditioned at his fuckhead mothers that "aww buddy you failed, we'll get it next time" so much that hes damaged and entitled. No long term look for a career and no thoughts that hey...shit...there is no next time. I need to get shit done now.