Rules?

Taureau

Taureau

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Did you give your woman any rules? Is there a structure to your relationship? Does she clearly know what is expected of here and the consequences if she does not toe the line? Are you man enough to stand up to her when she needs it????

I think woman crave a strong man but once they have him in their clutches they slowly turn him into a pussy and then no longer want him.
 
My wife and I set out a list of rules and it worked really well for us. Now we don't even need them they were more common sense and stuff for when we didn't k ow each other well but it built a lot of trust. We agreed on what to keep and what not to then signed it. I really support this kind of shit
 
1. No lying or keeping secrets
2. No opposite sex friends in life or online unless they're trust worthy christians
3. No leaving or going to sleep still angry without kissing and saying we love each other
4. No name calling
5. Respect time outs(on walks hold hands)
6. No going to friends to talk about our relationship problems, only to professionals and counsellors.
7. Always communicate and share feeling and thoughts that affect our marriage
8. No porn or getting off without the other person
9. No provocative outfits that would turn on or arouse people of the opposite sex.
10. No sex talk or vulgar jokes with the opposite sex or other people.
11. No slamming doors or hitting walls when angry.
12. Be humble gracefully and forgiving when our partner makes a mistake as long as they're putting in healthy effort to grow positively
13. No tit for tat( stick to your morals)
14. If any of these rules are broken and not corrected immediately the opposite spouse can refuse to take part in the argument and also suggest further preventive measures and outside help such as books, classes or counsellor.
15.No bringing up past mistakes in the moment unless it's something that's still going on or relevant.
16. If we ever ask to see the other persons phone hand it over immediately and give time time for a thorough look, how ever if the person who has the phone is name calling then phone is put away from both people.

People might think it's crazy but it really built an amazing relationship for us. They're all based on shit we most likely did in passed relationships that fucked something up one way or another
 
We agreed after we got married that we know each other amd trust each other well enough that we could throw out the rule list so we did
 
I’ve never had rules with a girlfriend, other than don’t fuck other people(unless we’re both there, and feel like tag-teaming one of her drunk friends) and just be honest with one another. If there’s a problem, talk to me. If I have a problem, I’ll talk to you. I’ve learned that nothing kills a relationship faster than shit left unsaid. I’ve also learned women will say “do whatever you want”, but it’s a different story when you smoke a half-gram of crack, and start ripping the kitchen cabinets off the wall.
 
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I’ve never had rules with a girlfriend, other than don’t fuck other people(unless we’re both there, and feel like tag-teaming one of her drunk friends) and just be honest with one another. If there’s a problem, talk to me. If I have a problem, I’ll talk to you. I’ve learned that nothing kills a relationship faster than shit left unsaid. I’ve also learned women will say “do whatever you want”, but it’s a different story when you smoke a half-gram of crack, and start ripping the kitchen cabinets off the wall.
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Classy.

I can’t understand why that could be such a problem for someone.

Fuck my entire life…….🤦‍♂️
 
Taureau said:
I think woman crave a strong man but once they have him in their clutches they slowly turn him into a pussy and then no longer want hihim.
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This 100% happens, no doubt about it. Both people need to remain themselves and have expectations of eachother. A relationship won't last if you dont.

Me and my girl don't have rules but we do have expectations of eachother and they're always fulfilled and there's never a problem.
 
Taureau said:
Did you give your woman any rules? Is there a structure to your relationship? Does she clearly know what is expected of here and the consequences if she does not toe the line? Are you man enough to stand up to her when she needs it????

I think woman crave a strong man but once they have him in their clutches they slowly turn him into a pussy and then no longer want him.
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It’s not that they want a pussy, but they think they can smooth the rough edges off. Sometimes get too carried away and make a pussy.
Feel the need to train us?

I still remember the day I told my wife that my training was complete, this was as good as I was going to get and if she kept going she would hate the person I became because she didn‘t want a completely nice guy.

She then stopped nagging me, lol.
 
I think it works both ways! We are not in 1800 century anymore, I don’t know how Canada works but in US women and men prefer healthy 50/50 relationship. Now if you want a strong woman, independent and financially stable that will back you up on anything when things go wrong then yes 50/50 but if you want submissive woman that makes less than you and that will not back you up if something goes wrong then yes I will follow with Bull’s advice.

I know it sounded kinda of topic so I had to come back and correct this. What I meant is women have rules too, I feel like if we are going to rip our vaginas apart all the way to the butt hole to deliver a baby we definitely have to have rules as well, especially woman that are independent and strong.
 
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I think maturely it works both ways both parties have to sacrifice of something to create something!! But definitely getting to know one another and understanding one another is critical before you get serious…
 
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