JOURNAL: A Girl on Gear

Today...

I got a regular gym goer complimenting my legs.

Why can't i be left alone? i'm probably the odd one out here but, i dont like being complimented... Not at the gym. Not by a stranger that i see everyday. now, I feel like I wanna switch gyms. I've been there a year but... I don't wanna smile and nod at acknowledge people
 
German89 said:
Today...

I got a regular gym goer complimenting my legs.

Why can't i be left alone? i'm probably the odd one out here but, i dont like being complimented... Not at the gym. Not by a stranger that i see everyday. now, I feel like I wanna switch gyms. I've been there a year but... I don't wanna smile and nod at acknowledge people
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Well if you ever compete you will have lots of people say nice things to you.

So Don t get really lean and you will be fine.;)
 
Is that your pic from Starbucks @German89 ;) how do you feel about your results so far? You look great I hope you can see that too. I know exactly what you mean about being at the gym and seeing regulars I think by the end of my 2hr gym time I was getting neck cramps from nodding. I am a pretty blunt person so now the first time someone talks to me I say thanks I come here to get away from people and focus on me. They understand pretty quick your not here to socialize or be flirted with. I've gone the ignore route but guys just dont get it.
 
Shadw said:
Is that your pic from Starbucks @German89 ;) how do you feel about your results so far? You look great I hope you can see that too. I know exactly what you mean about being at the gym and seeing regulars I think by the end of my 2hr gym time I was getting neck cramps from nodding. I am a pretty blunt person so now the first time someone talks to me I say thanks I come here to get away from people and focus on me. They understand pretty quick your not here to socialize or be flirted with. I've gone the ignore route but guys just dont get it.
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LMFAO... What'd you know about the starbucks bathroom and lighting? (I musta said something, eh? I can't remember half the shit i blog)
This picture was in the change room

Actually.. I'm happy that i've maintained this much this long. I just had the google do the whole, "pictures from a year ago today" WOWZERS. Real eye opener. I was 180 then, lifting a lot more, more powerlifting than bodybuilding but... I was FAT! holy fuck. I'll try and get a side by side up. I wasn't fat fat, just THICCCC... Now i'm just thick. still 150lbs.. Not as strong but, that's the goal kinda with this winter. Maintain my body fat, gain strength... 155lbs this morning but, I think that's my period bloat, again. FML. This period shit is getting unreal, I hope it comes to a stop soon.

Also want to add in... My hair is fine now. Lots of regrowth. And growing like crazy again. Every three months i'm getting cut and color done. I could do it every two but, I refuse to spend that kinda money every two months on my hair.

But yes. Shadw.. I couldn't look at that guy today and I had no headphones. I felt bad but, I don't fucking want to, plain and simple. It's different if he was a coworker but even then, it's "Hi!" and that's it! my coworkers know what I am there for.


We got pounded with snow yesterday, was to see my lawyer. Didn't even get half way, total white out. I had to call him and cancel. I was just going to drive to my besties because, she was the closet but no one was home. SSSOOOOO... I ended up at bloody winners.. and beside winners is Worlds so... Got a day pass and spent two hours doing chest. It was nice not working out with regular people... I think I might get a membership there just so I can switch it up from time to time and have different workouts. My gym now is very basic, which I love but, a few different machines at worlds that I can utilize. Shitty thing is, i had to sneak my chalk.. whatever! i can't help it.

Sorry, got a little long winded here. I need a shirt that says, leave me the Fukk alone.
 
German89 said:
LMFAO... What'd you know about the starbucks bathroom and lighting? (I musta said something, eh? I can't remember half the shit i blog)
This picture was in the change room

Actually.. I'm happy that i've maintained this much this long. I just had the google do the whole, "pictures from a year ago today" WOWZERS. Real eye opener. I was 180 then, lifting a lot more, more powerlifting than bodybuilding but... I was FAT! holy fuck. I'll try and get a side by side up. I wasn't fat fat, just THICCCC... Now i'm just thick. still 150lbs.. Not as strong but, that's the goal kinda with this winter. Maintain my body fat, gain strength... 155lbs this morning but, I think that's my period bloat, again. FML. This period shit is getting unreal, I hope it comes to a stop soon.

Also want to add in... My hair is fine now. Lots of regrowth. And growing like crazy again. Every three months i'm getting cut and color done. I could do it every two but, I refuse to spend that kinda money every two months on my hair.

But yes. Shadw.. I couldn't look at that guy today and I had no headphones. I felt bad but, I don't fucking want to, plain and simple. It's different if he was a coworker but even then, it's "Hi!" and that's it! my coworkers know what I am there for.


We got pounded with snow yesterday, was to see my lawyer. Didn't even get half way, total white out. I had to call him and cancel. I was just going to drive to my besties because, she was the closet but no one was home. SSSOOOOO... I ended up at bloody winners.. and beside winners is Worlds so... Got a day pass and spent two hours doing chest. It was nice not working out with regular people... I think I might get a membership there just so I can switch it up from time to time and have different workouts. My gym now is very basic, which I love but, a few different machines at worlds that I can utilize. Shitty thing is, i had to sneak my chalk.. whatever! i can't help it.

Sorry, got a little long winded here. I need a shirt that says, leave me the Fukk alone.
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You say you want to be left alone, but what if a heart throb man was in the guy? Would you mind if he talked to you then.:)
 
awwww... There was a heart throb guy at the gym I went to the other day. I'd let him bend me over any day. but. yeah... I don't know. He's better off catching me OUTSIDE of the gym? I don't know. maybe if he didn't try to hit on me or be flirtatious? it would be different. Make sense?
 
I’m not a woman so I can’t speak for the better sex but I think a compliment can be given in a respectful manner without offending or you can be a jerk and make people uncomfortable. Sure, being s good looking guy helps but I know lots of guys that don’t have amazing looks but do well with women because they compliment them but respectfully and don’t freak anyone out.
But like what I said, what do I know I’m not a woman but my sister gets hit on 24/7 and some are creepy and some make her feel good and it isn’t based on the person’s looks.
 
Sorbate said:
You can see a difference in your shoulders and arms, but it’s tough with that picture. In both you appeared to be in great shape though.

:)
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i know. they're horrible pictures..

you can't tell in the arms. just in the wasit, back, and ass.

which i won't post. sorry. lol
 
Goldenrod said:
I’m not a woman so I can’t speak for the better sex but I think a compliment can be given in a respectful manner without offending or you can be a jerk and make people uncomfortable. Sure, being s good looking guy helps but I know lots of guys that don’t have amazing looks but do well with women because they compliment them but respectfully and don’t freak anyone out.
But like what I said, what do I know I’m not a woman but my sister gets hit on 24/7 and some are creepy and some make her feel good and it isn’t based on the person’s looks.
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i think it's the look in his eyes when he says the compliment and when it kinda drags out.... like just say your piece and be done. thank you. i appreciate it. and go on. don't make it fuckin awkward.

i swear... its like when i don't have my headphones in. i get the most random shit thrown at me. i don't even gonna go on about today's rando... i think i'm just gonna change my attitude. and smile at these lames.
 
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